If you’re rising deeply in love
with someone, it’s a confusing fall; In love, you’re bound to feel lost,
excited, anxious and worried. Love is a dangerously beautiful experience for
the soul.
But even though so much is unknown when we find the person we believe
may be the one, some questions should never have to be asked.
1. Do you love me?
I can’t stress the importance of these three words. Nobody wants to see
those who are closest to the heart become total ghosts because they weren’t
told of their worth.
Love yours deeply, and let this person know of your love for him or her
every chance you have, before it’s too late.
2. Do I make you happy?
You should see by the way he smiles as he watches you laugh about
nothing. You should feel it in the way he wraps his arms around you and holds
you in his sleep.
His happiness should be your happiness, and yours will be his. Secret
smiles and little happy moments make relationships worth it.
3. Am I worth it?
When we’re young, the temptations of lust and attraction were rampant,
but infidelity seems to have not only become the norm, but the popular thing to
do.
In a relationship, however, that’s worth it. There won’t be a question
as to whether or not either of you is satisfied.
You understand what works for each other, and you compromise enough to
be respected, trustworthy and loyal.
4. Do you think we have a future?
When your partner loves you more than anything, keeping you in his or
her future won’t even be a second thought in his or her mind.
You will know your partner plans to keep you close to his or her side
through thick and thin as he or she plans to take you on weekend getaways, fun
trips away from the city or suburbia where you both live or road trips to
random music festivals in the middle of the summer.
5. Do you care about my past?
To be perfectly candid, we’ve all f*cked up a few times. It shouldn’t
be the determinant to who you are in any relationship or future experience.
Someone who deserves all of you should understand nothing that happened
before your relationship was a failure, just learning experiences.
6. Do you think I’m the one?
When you’ve met the person who you’ll spend a beautiful future with,
there’s no question that he or she is the one.
Although love at first sight may not always be the case, it becomes
quite clear rather quickly when you’ve met someone who you’re more than
compatible with. The two of you are totally in sync.
This wasn’t meant to be just a “fling.” There’s something real here between
the two of you, and the both of you want to watch it grow.
7. Do you care about my flaws?
Not only should your lover care about your flaws, he or she should love
every single one of them.
Because, at the end of the day, every single thing about you, whether
you view each piece of the puzzle as good or bad, makes up who you are.
The right person will worship every aspect of your being.
8. Am I the best you ever had?
Everyone deserves the right to feel comfortable and free in his or her
s*x life. We all should feel completely satisfied, confident and beautiful on a
daily basis.
You should never have to ask the person you sleep with whether you’re
one of the best s*x partners he or she has had.
It should be known that the two of you are extremely happy with the s*x
and fun in your relationship
.
9. Do you admire me?
You should feel admiration from your partner on a daily basis, no
matter how near or far they are.
Your beau should love your brain, your body, the way you speak and
breathe…Your light should be his or her guiding force.
In other words, your partner should be absolutely obsessed with you, in
the most endearing way.
10. Do you think I’m beautiful?
He’s found love in the smallest freckles on your skin and the way your
hair winds up at night, even when you hate it. His eyes will smile when they
see your face, and his lips will start to curl.
When someone who truly deserves to be in your life for the long run
enters it, you will see just how beautiful other people view you through the
eyes of your beloved.
11. Do you want to know the things nobody else hears?
It’s as if the two of you have the exact same internal clock that keeps
you up some nights until the crack of dawn, sharing every single story from
your lives.
He isn’t just interested in the way you grew up or what your favorite
classes were in school.
With him, it goes even deeper: He wants to know what kept you awake at
night as a child, what your first time having s*x was like, all of the secrets
you’ve been too afraid to even tell your closest friends.
You should never feel afraid to tell him anything.
12. Will you still love me tomorrow?
It doesn’t matter what fight happened today. The wrinkles on your face
from standing under a thousand suns and laughing under many moons won’t make
you any less beautiful.
Whether you’re by his side tomorrow or across the entire country, the
one will always keep you close in his or her heart. Every single day. No matter
what. You are loved.
You have now found the one, and the need to ask for his or her love is
no longer needed.
When you’ve met the person you are going to spend your life with,
eventually, somehow, all of your questions will be answered.
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