In the last few years, women
have been a lot more open about the lumps, bumps and lines that they’re
left with following the birth of their child.
Yet
with all of the positive snapshots of stretchmarks and mum tums that
have been shared on social media, the subject of C-sections (and the
scars they leave) has remained relatively off-limits. Until now.
One poignant photograph of a newborn baby and the caesarean section scar that brought it into the world has taken the Internet by storm.
The
stunning black and white image, captured by photographer Helen Aller,
29, shows the scar left by a procedure that saved both the baby and its
unnamed mother’s life.
And
it’s clearly had an impact. Since sharing the pic on her professional
Facebook page, the image has been seen by millions of people and shared
hundreds of thousands of times.
“I
photographed this mama’s pregnancy a while back and she was telling me
how terrified she was of having a C-section,” Helen captioned the image.
“Well last week she
went into labor but had to have an emergency C-section after
complications. She asked me to come over this morning and shoot this
particular image as her worst nightmare proved to be what saved her and
her child’s lives.”
C-sections remain a fairly sensitive subject.
Many pregnant women, like the mother in this image, are terrified that
they’ll have to have one while other mums are quick to voice their
opinions about women who either opt of have to have one, claiming they
haven’t really given birth if the child wasn’t born vaginally.
But
whatever anyone’s opinion on the surgery itself, most of us will agree
that it’s incredible brave of this new mum to share her scar with the
world.
“I had to have an emergency c-section with my first,”
Carla Johnston commented on the photo. “It took a long time to come to
terms with it, I read too many comments on stupid blogs like Mamamia
(which, btw, I steer well clear of nowadays) from judgey women saying
that women like me hadn’t given birth, we’d had our babies surgically
removed, and other bullshit like we don’t bond with our babies as well
as women who’d had natural births.
“My
second baby was born via c-section too - the problems which caused my
first baby to almost die were still present and it was too much of a
risk. My scar is a little smaller than this one looks, and two years
later is a very faint white line. It doesn’t bother me, I’ve grown to
like it as it symbolises my babies arriving safely into the world, and
besides, the only people who are ever going to see it are my husband, my
children and my doctors. Not because I’m ashamed, simply that it’s
unlikely given its location!(sic).”
But
then again, there are those who aren’t quite so open-minded and
understanding. Since posting her photo, Helen’s admitted to being on the
receiving end of a considerable amount of backlash with some Facebook
users branding the image as “offensive” and “disgusting”.
Some people have even tried to have the image removed from the social media site.
C-sections
are becoming more popular with many women requesting one to avoid the
pain of giving birth naturally – particularly in the US.
C-sections-on-demand (as they’re dubbed) aren’t quite as common here in
the UK as the majority of women give birth on the NHS, where doctors
have a strong say in the type of birth their patients have. You can read
more about C-sections here.
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