In Eleme Local Government Area in Rivers
State, when a child is born and the parents decide to name him or her
after someone they so admire, tradition demands that certain rites be
performed on the child by the person the child is named after to show
acceptance for and appreciation of the child for taking up his/her name.
The paramount ruler of Okori Eleme in Rivers State, His Royal Highness,
Appolus Chu recently performed such rites on several children that have
been named after him. Mary Ekah writes.
Some parents name their children after
people who perhaps have been good to individuals or community at large
to serve as role models and mentors to them.
When such happens, the
child at all times strives to live a good life and to impact the
community positively. Some parents also name their children after
persons who have done the family a favour as a way of immortalising that
person they admire so much as well as cement their friendship with the
person.
When such happens a traditional rite
must be carried out on the name-bearer during the lifetime of the person
he/she is named after. If the person who the child is named after dies
without performing this traditional rite to those persons named after
him or her, his or her family must perform the rite before they can
lower his/her body into the grave. This means that it is a necessity
that once a child is named after you, you must perform the traditional
rite before you die. This rite is performed few months after the birth
of a child, as part of his or her naming ceremony.
It was in line with this that the
paramount ruler of Okori Eleme in Rivers State, His Royal Highness,
Appolus Chu and in promotion of ancient Eleme traditional rites,
recently performed this old traditional rite on the children named after
him. He also performed the rite for some kids named after his wife,
Rev. Grace Appolus Chu, even though the rite came so late in the lives
of the namesakes as they had all grown beyond infancy. His Royal
Highness was quick to apologise to the families of these children for
doing the needful so late.
“In Eleme, it is a tradition that when a
man is generous and good to others in the society, people voluntarily
show honour and respect to such a man by naming their child after him.
It is considered one of the highest honours and sign of respect an Eleme
man can display to the one honoured. In fact, one’s value in a
traditional Eleme society can be measured by the number of namesakes
(Edee or Ngoo) one has,” he said
Amazingly, Emere Appolus Chu has got
several. Emere Appolus Chu who was recently conferred with the
traditional title of Emere Nkukuma Eleme (The Great Philanthropist of
Eleme) by the King of Eleme Kingdom, His Royal Majesty, Sir S.O. Ejire
expressed joy and satisfaction for the opportunity to meet with his
namesakes and blessed them one after the other. He expressed hope that
his namesakes will all grow to be greater and also have people named
after them, spreading the name far and wide across many generations.
Appolus Chu, the Egbere Emere Okori I of
Eleme donated one of his properties as a seed sown to God on behalf of
his namesakes. The property, an estate was donated to a nearby church
that share common boundary with it. Announcing the donation, he said the
purpose was to attract God’s favour upon his namesakes and apologised
for the delay in performing the traditional rites of Okere Ekpii Edee
(Acceptance and appreciation of namesakes). He said the houses on the
estate should be removed and the land used to build a structure for the
children section of the church. He also gave a token sum of One hundred
thousand naira to each of his namesakes who were six in number and three
others who were named after his wife, Rev. (Mrs.) Grace Appolus Chu,
the Queen of Okori Eleme.
Those named after the Emere Appolus Chu
and his wife include: Master Appolus Simeon Olaka, Appolus Samuel Nwolu,
Appolus David, Appolus Ngei Chu, Appolus Obo Ebie and Appolus Obo
Nwolu. Others are: Miss Grace Owa Emere Sunny Ogbu, Miss Grace Owa Emere
Yeye Mbaka Nwafor, and Miss Grace Owa Emere Saturday. While two of the
namesakes are of Kogi and Edo origin respectively, the others are of
Eleme.
While receiving and appreciating the
children named after him, the Paramount Ruler explained that traditional
rulers are the sole spiritual heads in communities. He said: “As an
intermediary between God and the people, the main role of the
traditional ruler should be making pronouncements and blessing the
people. God will not hold the Bishop responsible but the king of the
land because the king is next to God.
“The King is the sole spiritual head of
his community. As the traditional ruler, blessing his people is one of
his paramount duties to his subjects. He is the mediator between God and
his people. Before the coming of Christianity and Western civilisation,
the kings were the spiritual heads of their communities. They led the
people in prayers. They offered and poured libations to bless the people
and the land. Such role still exits till date and will continue to be
there from generation to generation.
As nature has placed children under the
care of their parents as their direct responsibility, so it has placed
the people in the community under the King as his direct responsibility.
He is accountable to God over his subjects, even when there are bishops
and pastors in that community. God will not question the bishop and
pastors but the king over any calamity that befalls the land or any
misrule of his subjects. People come to him for blessings and prayers
when he is seated on the throne because they understand that the throne
is the citadel of blessings and that the king has been vested with the
authority and power to bless and utter positive words upon them.
So, it is my duty to pray, bless and
intercede for my community both in my private chamber and in public. As
it is in the interest of the father to bless his children in order to
see them prosper in good health and long life, so also is it the in the
interest of the king to bless his subjects in order to see them prosper
in good health and long life,” the royal father noted.
Speaking further, he said, “When I make
pronouncement upon my subjects that God should bless them, it runs into
the future and manifests in their prosperity and well-being. The act is
to secure the future of my people, I am pronouncing blessing upon them
on behalf of God.”
He said therefore that the hand of the
king must always be clean so that when he goes before God to intercede
on behalf of the people, God will hear him, adding, “But when the king
is not clean, his prayers attract God’s wrath. In the ancient days the
traditional rulers do libation and they were committed but with the
advent of civilisation, kings now pray and approach God in a modernised
way. So, the king should pray for the land otherwise there would be
disaster and calamity because if you don’t pray and bless your subjects
today, you should not expect prosperity amongst them tomorrow.”
He said therefore that the king should
be involved in chains of prayers and endless pronouncement of blessing,
adding, “When the king is not at peace with God and the gods of the
land, there will be calamity, but when the king is at peace with God,
there will be peace and prosperity. So, the king is key, he is a
counselor, an educator, a consultant and a judge of the people, one that
promotes and maintains the culture and tradition of the people.”
Emere Appolus Chu who performed the
Okere Ekpii Edee traditional rite in his palace at Eleme also used the
occasion to bless several of his subjects and other individuals and
groups who visited him in his palace to pay homage. Amongst those who
received his royal blessings were members of Eleme women, members of the
Eleme youth council, members of National Association of Eleme Students
(NAES), and beneficiaries of the HRH Appolus Chu Foundation and many
others.
Parents of the namesakes of Emere
Appolus Chu, the Abachun Emere I of Eleme who were visibly elated
thanked him for the royal blessing given to the namesakes and pledged to
contribute their part by bringing up the children in the fear of God to
ensure that they represent the name, guide and protect it jealously.
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