Before you get your edible underwear in a bundle over planning a super-romantic date (or an equally exciting anti-Valentine's shindig), you should know that this February isn't going to be as lovey dovey as usual.
That's because Venus, the planet of love and romance, is about to go into retrograde,
making you feel like slowing down and rethinking your love life.
(Though your candy forecast is looking spectacular after February
14th—per usual.)
Besides slowing your romantic roll, February could also fuel some impulsive moments. Maybe that means a sex toy shopping spree or going out with a guy you wouldn't normally hang with.
While your love tank might not be as full as usual, thanks to Venus
throwing it into reverse, this is the best time to take stock of your
relationship, looking into what’s working and what’s not. Whatever you
do, follow your heart this month—and not just the candy-coated variety.
Venus will be taking up residency in your sign this month, making February a huge time for your sex life.
But, yeah, you don’t come cheap. You like to be romanced, dammit, and
you’re not going to be ready to slip between the sheets until you get
that TLC. The key here is to let your partner know you want to feel
special or take matters into your own hands and set the tone yourself.
Make a sexy bubble bath and lay out glasses of champs or slip into something silky to let your lover know it takes a little effort to wow you. Single ladies, go ahead and splurge on that fancy vibe you've been eyeing. You don't need our permission to treat yourself to a big O.
You’ll have sex on the brain big-time this month, and if you’re not getting enough, you’re going to be fantasizing
about it. While it’s always fun to get freaky in new places, you’ll be
most turned on by just being home with your partner-in-crime this month.
Hey, snuggling counts as foreplay, too. Try a little Netflix and chill and see where that gets you—you might find that staying in is anything but boring.
It’s always important to be heard, but this month you'll feel especially turned on when you know that your partner is listening to what you’re saying. That doesn’t mean chatting about your day—the stars say you’ll be stimulated by the fact that your lover cares about your deep thoughts. Plan to forge a deeper bond with your S.O., or create a friendship with that guy you've been sleeping with—and you’ll get ah-mazing returns. When you feel like you have a connection outside the bedroom, the sex will blow your damn mind. 
We know you aren’t usually one to make the first move,
Cancer, but February is the time to try something different. See if
that hot friend of your work wife wants to connect for happy hour or at
least drop enough hints that he asks you. It’ll get you farther than you
think. If you’re already in a relationship, you may start to feel that
you’re the one putting all the effort into your sex life lately. Make it clear to your S.O. that sometimes it’s better to give than receive—especially when you’re on the receiving end. 
A lunar eclipse is in Leo this month, so
buckle up, buttercup. Now is primetime for taking risks in your love
life. Sure, you have your go-tos when it comes to sex, but it’s time to bust out of your routine and work something new into your repertoire. (Allow us to recommend these wild and crazy sex positions). The payoff will be huge.A change of scenery can be big for you, too. Try taking a romantic weekend away, if you can spring for it, or date someone outside of your immediate area. After all, LDRs can be hot AF, and it’s unlikely that your perfect match is living next door. (Spice up your sex life with this organic lube from the Women's Health Boutique.)
It’s hard to keep you satisfied, Virgo, but this month you’re finally going to get what you’re craving.
February is going to be a busy month for you—in and out of the
bedroom—and your partner might start asking you for more nooky time. Try
prioritizing sex over work to see how it feels.Make time to enjoy your own sensuality, but be aware that you may have to strike a careful balance between your love life and everything else on your plate this month. Get it right and you’ll get it tight.
Everybody loves choices, and in February
you’ve got a serious smorgasbord going on. Everyone is going to want a
piece of you, and you may find yourself juggling dates. Appreciate the
individuality in everyone who crosses your path and remind yourself that
someone doesn’t have to be “perfect” to thoroughly satisfy you.If you’re already in a committed relationship, make sure you find time for date night, even though life can be crazy. Having special one-on-one time out with your S.O. will set the tone for when you can finally get down.
It’s time to make a move, Scorpio. Your love
life is full of options, and the next 28 days are the best time to
figure out what to do next. If you’ve been chatting with someone new,
set a date to meet IRL—the stars say your determination to make it happen will pay off.You’re going to be busy this month with work, life, and pretty much everything else, but don’t forget to make time for your bae. Getting into a routine—even if it’s just snuggling for 10 minutes before bed—will light a fire that pays off in the long term.
February is your month, Sagi. You’re going to have more drama-free fun than anyone—so do it big! Take a little trip with your lover
or make plans for a getaway down the road. Your energy is perfect for
doing something a little outside your routine in February.Looking for someone to shack up with? Go someplace different, like a bar you’ve never been to or a new friend’s party—you could meet the love of your life, or at least someone who will seriously wow you between the sheets.
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Sure, you want to keep it hot when you get
down and dirty, but that doesn’t mean you have to blow a bunch of money
to make it happen. Avoid the temptation to spend big on sexy swag for Valentine’s Day—it’s just going to stress you out.You’ll get the most satisfaction out of bringing someone home with you this month. Try throwing a party to meet a potential new lover or cook for your S.O. at home before turning up the heat in the bedroom. Feeling comfortable at your place will really help you open up in the sack.
You do you every month, but it’s especially
important to tune into your wants and needs in February, Aquarius.
Telling your S.O. will only make sex that much more satisfying for you.
And if someone isn’t willing to embrace and indulge your desires, they may not be right for you in the long run.You’re going to feel some push and pull between spending time with your friends and your friends with benefits this month, but do what you want to do—and don’t worry about what others think.
Sure, you want to make Valentine’s Day
special for your lover, but don’t stress about whether you’re doing
enough. Trust us, you are (and then some). For the next 28 days, go with
the flow when it comes to your sex life. Your lover may try your
patience outside the bedroom, but try taking a step back and letting
things fall into place. You'll accomplish more than you think.If you’re looking for someone new, be patient and don’t jump into a relationship just because the opportunity is there. It’s okay to try a few people on for size until you find the right fit.
For more information contact Donna Page at lovinglightastrologer.com and follow her on facebook.com/lovinglightastrology.
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