It takes a different type of breed to waltz into a subcontinental music competition, with the breezy intentions of just “gaining experience and meeting people”,
only to strut out through an aisle of shiny confetti as the winner.
This was the case of Chidinma Ekile in 2010, when she took a leap from
being random to ruling fandoms; resulting from finishing first in the 3rd season of MTN’s popular reality music game show, Project Fame West Africa.
With no prior ambition of pursuing music professionally, this magnanimous feat meant one thing for the then 19-year-old Imo state native -diving into the murky waters of the music industry and learning to float, right on the job.
Though the goth eye makeup from the photo session was still on fleek,
her eyes tattled on her tiredness. She had come in directly from a
dental appointment and by the time the shoot was done (barely 4 hours
from midnight), her day was still far from over. Rest was,
unfortunately, far too as she was due to be on a plane to an undisclosed
location, right the next day, for a performance. 7 years down the line
and she seemed to have eased into this unplanned course of her life. It
didn’t matter whether or not she had plans for music before the show
that launched her into fame… Music, long had plans for her.
“…Music was never part of the big picture until Project Fame. I’d always seen myself as a broadcaster. I wanted to be on radio” she explained, as she warded off insects that probably mistook her skin’s glow for a light source.
“I just wanted to gain some experience. I wanted to meet people
because prior to that time, I was always home. I just wanted to go out
and talk to new people. That was the motive behind it.”
It isn’t unusual for reality show winners to be hot for a minute and
spend decades bubbling under. Matter of fact, it is indeed a worldwide
problem. Out of all the 9 winners of Project Fame since the show
commenced in 2008, Iyanya and Chidinma have obviously experienced the
most limelight.
She responds to a question, agreeing that the industry is quite tougher for reality show winners, than for other new musicians.
“In a way, yes it is… Most especially, because these winners do
not get enough support. I think that’s the major problem. Also, a lot of
pressure is being put on these people.” She changes her voice tone as if to imitate someone.
–You have to make it! You have to do this! –
“It can be tough. The pressure begins to tell on the winners so
much that people begin to expect lots from you and if you make any
mistake that is usual, it’s like you’ve done the worst thing.”
Men and how she likes them…not
If you have intentions of trying to kick it with Chidinma, here’s a cheat code for you. She cannot stand men with bad breath and if you’re a talkative, you are very likely to tick her off.
Quite an alarming number of men are romantically attracted to her. The other day, it was Lil Kesh telling us why she would make a perfect wife for him.
If you have intentions of trying to kick it with Chidinma, here’s a cheat code for you. She cannot stand men with bad breath and if you’re a talkative, you are very likely to tick her off.
Quite an alarming number of men are romantically attracted to her. The other day, it was Lil Kesh telling us why she would make a perfect wife for him.
Confirming that she is in the know of her widely perceived girl-next-door vibe, she hints her unavailability.
“It’s a good thing that everybody wants to be with Chidinma but I don’t think Chidinma wants to be with anybody right now”
She adds that she has been proposed to a gazillion times but she is just not ready yet.
Switching the focus to her much talked about affiliation with the baby boy of indigenous Afro-highlife –Flavour, she jumps at the question like she’s been waiting for it.
Vibe: …People think both of you are an item becau…
Chidinma:
(Interrupts with vehement passion) and people will think that for a
very long time. Trust me, we have such a beautiful chemistry. Our
working relationship is awesome. I can tell you that for a fact. It’s so
beautiful and it is very stress-less. When we are in the studio, a lot
of things happen. A lot of magic happens. We make magic. It’s just
natural. I don’t even know where it came from.
From her reply to our #WhatsYourTake question, you could tell she was a deep lover. Her discography of love tunes then seemed explained.
Vibe: Can you give bae the password/pin to your phone, social media platforms and ATM?
Chidinma: She asks in her best let’s-get-to-business tone. What kind of bae? Are we serious or not? If we are, then yes. I can give him.
Vibe: You’ll let him slide into your dms and see all your messages?
Chidinma: Yes! Why not?
On her effortless charm
Through the most part of the photo shoot, she seemed to wear a
cosmetic frown but the opposite was quite the case during the interview.
She later gave an exposé on what the facade was about, when she was
asked to tell us bad habits she felt she needed to change.
“Hmm, bad habits? I am not sure they are up to 3. I want to smile
less. YES. Because I smile a lot and people sometimes tend to see that
as a weakness.” She demonstrates a typical scenario of her smiley self being taken for granted.
“What else do I want to stop?”
She thinks aloud and now, back to her default smiling self… Her sister replies “Talk less”.
Chidinma lets out a hysterical defensive laugh. “Oh My God, I don’t even talk too much. Most times, you have to force stuff out of me so I don’t think that’s an answer.”
In the most angelic braggadocio way, she admits to having exhausted anything about herself that she can refer to as a bad habit.
Now under pressure from her sister for the interview to come to a
close as they had to leave for further engagements, we swiftly talk
about her signature hairstyle.
“First of all, only my sister touches and makes my hair and at
some point, she had to travel and then I tried to make my hair somewhere
else with other people but my hair began to fall off. So I thought to
myself. I need to cut this hair. I also wanted a different look.
I remember the first time I cut my hair. The moment I did and I
had a shoot, I was almost crying like -oh my God, I’m bald- but
immediately I took the pictures, I just fell in love and ever since,
I’ve been rocking it.”
On Bubu’s new improved economy and domestic violence
Chidinma transformed into quite a hilarious scripture quoting
preacher when asked if she was in anyway affected by the economic
instability.
“We are children of God. When people say there is a casting down, I say there is a lifting up. So yeah, that’s what it is .”
Touching on the domestic violence trend, she calmly dropped her thoughts.
“It’s a terrible thing. I don’t wish that for any of my friends
or even an enemy. I just hope that some men will be more responsible and
learn when to walk away when being tempted to do these things. And also
for women… I mean, it’s both sides. I can’t say that men are the cause
or women are the cause. We do not know what happens in these families.
We’re not there. We do not live with them. Only those involved
understand what goes on but we shouldn’t let it get to the point where
you need to hit someone. You can never justify that. I’ve seen that
happen over and over again. I pray it stops. I just want to urge women
to also pray more. We get to avoid these things when we are closer to
God.”
On future music, lessons learned and going forward
Unwilling to share in-depth information on her next body of work, she assured that we would be the first to know.
“Right now, I’m just going to keep doing good music. Definitely there’s going to be an album soon.
When it’s close, I’ll definitely let you know.”
She listed some of the lessons she had come to learn and would hence forth work with.
“I’ve learnt a lot. I’ve learnt a lot about people and how to
relate with them. I’ve learnt a lot about how to accommodate people. I’m
not such an open person but I’ve met very nice people, I have met very
terrible people, I have met people who always like to take advantage but
above all, I’ve learnt to love people the more even with their
shortcomings.”
Her mantra doubled as advice for any ear available.
“You
have to love music enough to make sacrifices. We’ve heard stories of
people selling their cars to shoot music videos, you know, doing stuff
to make things happen. If you do not love something, I don’t think
you’ll go the extra mile. You need to be persistent. Like, really really
persistent. You need to know you want to actually do music. Music is
not like other businesses that you put in money and then in the next 1
year or 2, you get your profit. Music doesn’t work like that. You don’t
get your profit like instantly. But most of all, trust God. A lot of
people have done a lot of things to get there and be there but
ultimately, you need to trust God to follow your every move and follow
you through the journey…”
You need to trust that journey…
Looking in her eyes, it was easy to tell she had calculated the exact
cost of this dream and was now fully ready to pay any outstanding dues.
After all, she was equipped with all she needed. Full of youth and
parceled in a beautifully petite body, If Chidinma stood on her
confidence, determination and the rare quality of her vocal cords, she’d
be a thousand feet tall.
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