What
men do in a relationship is the crucial factor that separates a great
relationship from a failed one. The husband who lacks emotional
intelligence rejects his wife's pains. And that what I saw Louis do
every day.
In
all marital conflicts, both parties have responsibilities as a speaker
and a listener. But Louis, do not want to be either of these.
This
is a man who is extremely abusive in more ways than one. He is arrogant
beyond explanation but also a highly functioning sociopath so some are
not aware of the toxic behaviour within him as he appears 'charming".
The
emotionally intelligent husband is interested in his wife’s emotions
because he honors and respects her. Louis is far from this statement.
His evil behaviour is greased and encouraged by his controlling mother
with whom he has an abnormal bond with (maybe oedipus complex?).
No
doubt, Louis’s mom is the puppet master and is so hell bent on
portraying their family in a superior light, that she will do anything
to keep up appearances.
She
and her husband live completely separate lives in different countries,
(with the husband having numerous girlfriends in Lagos, one of whom
lives in 1004) only coming together to appear in union, of which they
are most definitely not.
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