Keziah Daum, 18, who is not Asian, was stunned by the reaction to a
photo of her in a red, high-collared cheongsam (also known as a qipao)
she bought at a vintage-clothing store in Salt Lake City, the Washington Post reported.
“I thought (the dress) was absolutely beautiful,” she said, adding that
it “really gave me a sense of
appreciation and admiration for other
cultures and their beauty.”
Others had very different reactions, as the long-running debate about
the different between appreciation and appropriation found fresh fuel.
Katy Perry, Kylie Jenner, Karlie Kloss, Selena Gomez and Mylie Cyrus have all been drawn into the heated conversation.
“My culture is NOT your (expletive) prom dress,” Jeremy Lam tweeted.
He went on to explain the history of the qipao, which, he noted, “was
originally a loose dress/garment without shape, made for Chinese women
to clean the house and do other domestic chores with.”
He concluded in a final tweet, which has been retweeted more than 900
times that “In short: I’m proud of my culture, including the extreme
barriers marginalized people within that culture have had to overcome
those obstacles. For it to simply be subject to American consumerism and
cater to a white audience, is parallel to colonial ideology.”
Lam wasn’t alone in his assessment. “you just don’t wear it if ur not.
chinese … “it’s not something to play dress up with,” the Washington Post reported.
Critics were particularly inflamed by Daum posing with her hands in a prayer position.
On the other hand, Daum had defenders, including people who identified themselves as Chinese.
“I am a Chinese woman,” Ying Li, who posted on Twitter at
@msyinseattle. “I am a Chinese woman. I support you,” she noted. “You
rocked that dress!! I have an 18 year old daughter who just had her
prom. She said people might be just jealous that you look awesome in
that dress.”
Deam, whose Twitter followers increased dramatically in the wake of the
social-media dressing down, tweeted that she meant “no harm.” She’s
tried to take something from the experience by learing more about
Chinese culture and history as well as about the pros and cons of social
media, according to the Post.
Still, she is staunch about her freedom to wear what she wants.
“I don’t see the big deal of me wearing a gorgeous dress I found for my
last prom,” she tweeted. “If anything, I’m showing my appreciation to
other cultures and I didn’t intend to make anyone think that I’m trying
to be racist. It’s just a dress.”
She added, “I’d wear it again.”
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