Episode Two
Every
cause has an effect. If some women are confident while other are not, there
must be reasons.
1. Awareness
of being loved.
A confident woman knows that she is loved;
she does not fear being unloved, because she knows that God loves her
unconditionally. I encourage you to
concentrate on those who do love you and let go about those who do not. God
certainly does love us.
2. Rejection
of Fear.
A confident woman refuses to live in
fear. “I will not fear” is the only acceptable attitude we can have toward
fear. That does not mean that we will
never feel fear, but it does mean that we will not allow it to rule our
decisions and actions. Fear is not from God. Unless we make a firm decision to
fear not, we will never be free from the power of it. I encourage you to be
firm in your resolve to do whatever you need to do.
3. Positive
Insight
A confident woman is positive and has
nothing to do with negativity. They are like oil and water; being positive or
negative is a choice- it is a way of thinking, speaking and acting from our
habits. It has been said that 90% of what we worry about never happens.
4. Recovers
from Failures
We don’t need to see setbacks as
failures. A person is not a failure because she tried something that did not
work out. She fails only when she stops trying. A confident woman is not afraid
to make mistakes, and if she does, she recovers and presses on. Not letting the
past dictate your future is part of the confident lifestyle.
5. Avoids
comparisons.
Comparisons can destroy the power of
confidence in us. No matter how good, talented or smart, successful we are,
there is always someone that is better and sooner or later we will run into
them. Confident is found in doing the best we can with what we have.
6. Woman
of Action.
They are two types of people on the
world. The ones who wait for something to happen and the ones who make
something happen. Some people are naturally shy, while others are naturally
bold, but with God on our side we can live in the supernatural not the natural.
We all have something to overcome----
A
naturally shy person must
overcome anxiety, timidity, the temptation to withdraw from challenges and low
confidence while
A
naturally bold person has
to overcome pride, excessive aggression and false confidence.
If
a person is naturally introverted or extroverted, she will always have greater
tendencies towards that natural trait and that is not wrong, as stated God
create all of us different.
7.
Doubting
Thought (If, Only, And What If)
The world is filled with people who
feel empty and unfulfilled, because they have spent their lives bemoaning what
they did not have, instead of using what they do have. Do not live in the Tran
of “if only”. If only I had more education, money, opportunity or someone to
help me, etc. Rather use the little you
to God’s glory, He will use it and give you back more than that you gave.
PROVERBS 31:10-31, JAMES 1:5-8.
BY
BOKIME ROBERT
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