Why go to all the work getting
strong, flexible, and in top shape, if you can’t take it to the bedroom? Sex,
too, can be an athletic endeavor, if you and your partner are fit and willing
to try something that might take you both out of your comfort zone. In the
spirit of experimentation, we emailed some of our favorite sex experts to get
their opinions on the most difficult and unusual sex positions out there. These
experts specialize in all different areas of sex and sexuality, so their
recommendations vary greatly in difficulty and approach, with options for every
level of athlete.

The Swing (Prenkholita): Ava Cadell, Ph.D. in human
sexuality and
author of Idiot’s
Guides: The Kama Sutra advocates the swing position for the
late-night athletes. For it, a man reclines on his back with his feet on
the ground and knees up, then raises his hips off the floor in a
lower-body bridge. The woman is seated on top of him. “You must have a strong
back and legs for this acrobatic sex position, rated as one of the most
difficult ones in my Kama Sutra book,” says Cadell. The
book recommends this position be done on the floor rather than the bed for a
more solid foundation.
Standing Suspended (Avalambitaka): This
position is one of the most challenging in Cadell’s book. In it, as you might
guess, the man is standing and the woman is suspended, her legs wrapped around
his thighs and his hands cupping her butt. “This is the most difficult position
for a couple to maintain for any length of time,” says Cadell. She also warns
that people should not do the Standing Suspended position after drinking
because they need to have tip-top balance. For people who want to give this
position a test drive, they can consider using it as a transitional move from
one location to another.
Advanced Cow (Dhenuka): The
classic Cow is when a woman stands with her feet apart and the man enters her
from behind. She then bends over until her hands touch the floor. In this
spiced-up version of the position, the man can hold the woman’s waist as she —
calling upon ample upper body strength and muscle control — lifts her feet off
the ground. Cadell says the Cow is an especially good position
for less-endowed men.
Advanced High
Squeeze (Utpiditaka): In the High Squeeze position, the woman lies on
her back with her feet on her partner’s chest. He then enters her, kneeling,
from under her feet. While this classic version of the high squeeze can be
quite comfortable for women, the spiced-up version is not as relaxing. In
this variation, the man raises up to his knees and the woman’s hips are off the
ground, so that she is now resting on her upper back. Cadell says this is a
great position for G-spot stimulation and men who have a thing
for feet.
Ex Sex: This
position is a creative take on Missionary. Milrod says it’s “good for when you
want to pay attention to yourself while enjoying another’s body.” To perform Ex
Sex, the man lies on top of the woman with his head facing her feet. Both have
their legs open. Because his body is facing the opposite direction, he should
take care when penetrating at this unusual angle.
Intersextion: Milrod
warns that this position should be skipped by people who have joint
problems — and that not everyone will find it comfortable. In this
position, the woman lays on her side. The man, also on his side, is behind her
with both of his legs between her legs. Together, they form an X shape,
hence the name.
Pirate’s Bounty: If
the name isn’t enticing enough, Milrod also says this position is good “for
deep insertion and total clitoral stimulation during intercourse.” To perform
Pirate’s Bounty, the woman lays on her back with one leg on her partner’s
shoulder and the other wrapped around his thigh. The man is kneeling. A pillow
under the woman’s back may make this position more comfortable.
The Worm: This is another variation of Missionary recommended by Milrod,
but it has the woman on top and facing the man’s feet. Both partners have their
legs spread in an X shape. Start this position with the
woman seated on top, then gradually leaning forward.
Cross Your Heart: Like the High
Squeeze, in this position the woman lies back with her feet on her partner’s
chest. He kneels and enters from under her legs. The twist on this position is
that the woman crosses her legs at the ankles. The tension caused by her
crossed legs will make almost any motion pleasurable, so have fun exploring,“
says Tristan Weedmark, Global Passion Ambassador for We-Vibe.
Lap of Luxury: In this position,
partners sit facing each other and the woman puts her legs on her partner’s
shoulders. It’s easier to accomplish this if the man leans back some so she can
move her legs up gradually. "Vary the angle of insertion to find the best
position for both of you,” says Weedmark.
A Twist on Missionary: Penthouse columnist
Martin Downs says that complicated sex positions are often little
more than complicated, but even with that caveat, he recommends
considering this twist: adding anal sex to Missionary position. “If the
taboo-breaking thrill of anal sex has worn off, doing it in Missionary makes it
seem dirty again, in a good way,” he says.
Caught in a Web: This one may not
exactly qualify as a position, but it would certainly be a physical feat.
Caught in a Web involves a person who is carefully tied into a 10-by-10 foot
“web.” The person in the web is positioned in sexually available ways, and the
free partner can work with that however everyone sees fit. Tiger
Devore, clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, says this web
was one of the most artistic and sexual positions there is.
The Wheelbarrow: To perform the classic
Wheelbarrow, the man stands up while the woman is on her hands and knees. The
man then lifts her back-half by the ankles, pulling her legs to the side of his
body. “This position creates really great, deep penetration, and feels wildly
animalistic,” says Vanessa
Marin, sex therapist. This position is also one of the more acrobatic ones
out there, requiring dexterity and upper body strength.
The Pretzel: This position starts
with both partners ready to crab walk (no, really). This means they have their
hands and feet flat on the ground and stomachs facing skyward. The woman then
has to raise her pelvis and lower onto her partner’s penis. “You have to work
together as a team to keep the movement going, and it’s a real workout for both
partners,” says Marin.
Scissors: This position is not
particularly demanding physically, but it makes the list for being among the
more complicated to understand. Partners start joined at just the pelvis
with both of their legs open, like the blades of scissors. Linda
Banner, a health psychologist and sexual medicine expert in private
practice in San Jose, says this can be a particularly good choice for people
with certain physical limitations, like pregnancy or back problems.
Washing Machine: This position is not
too tricky, but may require an adventurous mood. There are two
versions: In the first, the woman sits on a washing machine while on spin
cycle and the man enters her while standing, this way she is getting
stimulation from penetration and the vibration of the machine. In places where
a washer and a dryer are side-by-side, the couple can even lay on top. “Men say
they like this position. A lot,” says Anka Radakovich, sex columnist and author
of The
Wild Girls Club, Part 2: Tales from New York to Hollywood. For this
reason, she cautions couples that sex in the Washing Machine position may not
last long.
The Sunday Afternoon: Even athletes need to cool
down, so think of this last one as a position for your day of
recovery. This is another X position where the man
lies on his side and the woman on her back. She puts her leg that is closest to
him over his hip. She can use her other leg to pull him closer by wrapping her
foot around his lower leg. Cay
L. Crow, a Texas-based certified sex therapist, says this position allows
for easy clitoral stimulation and can be simply transitioned into spooning.
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