If you want to start your day the same way Tony Robbins does, you only need to set aside 10 minutes.
Robbins has spent the last three decades as the world's foremost
performance coach, taking on clients like billionaire investor Paul
Tudor Jones, tennis champion Serena Williams, and former president Bill
Clinton. He's sold millions of books and audio lessons, and thousands of
people attend his seminars every year.
"Whenever you want to make a change or improve something, the first
place you want to prove it is in your mental, emotional state," he told
the crowd. "If you do something from a pissed off state, from an
exhausted state, from a frustrated state, from a weak state, it won't
matter what you do. The thoughts are weak when you're in a weak place.
The actions are weak."
Priming, then, is intended to get you in an energized, positive state that will carry you through the day.
"If you don't have 10 f---ing minutes for your life, you don't have a life," he said.
In a previous interview with Business Insider,
Robbins said that he often plays meditative music while he primes, but
you can also do it in silence. The breathing exercise should take around
a minute, with each of the remaining three steps lasting around three
minutes. You can spend longer on any step if you'd like.
Here's how to do it.
1. Perform a breathing exercise.
Robbins created his own version of an ancient yoga technique called Kapalabhati Pranayama breathing.
In Robbins' version, begin by sitting straight with your eyes closed.
Inhale deeply through your nostrils while simultaneously lifting your
arms in a shoulder press motion, and then exhale forcefully through your
nostrils while bringing your arms back to your body, palms up. Perform
the breaths in quick succession.
The yoga site Yoga Outlet
says that Kapalabhati Pranayama breathing should be controlled through
constrictions of the abdomen. The site recommends learning
beginner-level yogic breathing techniques first, and warns that pregnant
women or people with breathing problems should avoid the more advanced
technique.
In Robbins' version, he does three sets of 30 with brief breaks in
between. This can further be broken down into three sets of 10 repeated
three times. When starting to learn the exercise, you can begin with
three sets of 10 and work your way up. The exercise should leave you
feeling energized.
2. Express gratitude
Robbins then takes a few minutes to think of three things he's grateful for, spending about a minute on each.
Each of the things you're grateful for should be experienced as a
moment you're reliving. So, if you are grateful for the way your friends
surprised you on your birthday the day before, you should remember it
as it happened.
Robbins likes to have one of the three moments be something small,
which can be as simple as being thankful for the present, if a cool
breeze is blowing on his face while he sits outside to perform his
exercise.
As he previously told Business Insider, "The reason I picked
gratitude is because when you're grateful you can't be angry. And when
you're grateful you can't be fearful."
3. Experience connection.
Next is an exercise based on Buddhist meditation.
Imagine a light flowing into the top of your head and then spreading
into the rest of your body, strengthening and healing you. When it has
flowed through your entire body, then visualize that energy flowing out
from your body to the world around you. You can focus on loved ones, as
well as total strangers who may be in your vicinity.
Robbins said that, depending on your personal beliefs, you can add a
spiritual or religious aspect to this part of the exercise, but noted
that it is not necessary to be effective.
4. Visualize success.
Robbins then spends the last three minutes visualizing what it is
like to achieve a goal."Don't think about making it happen, see it as
done," Robbins said. Spend a minute on each.
He said that when imagining this celebration, you should not only
focus on how it benefits you, but allows you to positively affect the
lives of others. Feel gratitude.
You can watch the full video below. Robbins begins his priming exercise around the 44-minute mark.
Originally published at www.businessinsider.com
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