If you are a novice in handling men and
haven’t been around them much ever since your childhood, worry no more.
Here are some tips that will help you understand men better.
1. They are insecure
Men need validation from their better half. They might not need it
from pretty much anyone else, but when it comes to partner, they need to
feel secure. They need to satisfy their primal instinct that they are
the bread-earners and protectors of the household. So be sure to give
them that satisfaction otherwise they could get insecure.
2. He Wants to be Your Protector
Again, men need to feel like the strong and muscular protector of the
house. It’s a primal instinct and it makes them feel like they are
worth something. So let them kill that bug, call them if you see a
lizard even if you are better at these things.
3. Actions speak louder than words
This is one of the most disturbing things that men suffer at the hands of women. No one can read your mind. Especially men can’t do that because they are not programmed that way. So let them know if something is bothering you and if you need something and they will do everything that they can to provide you with those things.
4. Men want to be respected
Respect goes both ways. Men need their women to respect them. Especially in front of the world because if you don’t, then their buddies and colleagues will make fun of him. They will tell him that he is not man enough to demand respect from his own woman.
This is one of the most disturbing things that men suffer at the hands of women. No one can read your mind. Especially men can’t do that because they are not programmed that way. So let them know if something is bothering you and if you need something and they will do everything that they can to provide you with those things.
4. Men want to be respected
Respect goes both ways. Men need their women to respect them. Especially in front of the world because if you don’t, then their buddies and colleagues will make fun of him. They will tell him that he is not man enough to demand respect from his own woman.
5. Try not to lecture him in front of the Guys
Keep your troubles to your bedroom. No matter how upset you are, put on a good face in front of the world. Don’t be the reason of his ridicule in public. This cannot be emphasized enough.
6. Love-making is more than physical contact
Sex is not just about the physical needs of the body. It helps connect two people in ways that are beyond our comprehension. So keep that love-making up. Don’t disregard it as a useless act.
Keep your troubles to your bedroom. No matter how upset you are, put on a good face in front of the world. Don’t be the reason of his ridicule in public. This cannot be emphasized enough.
6. Love-making is more than physical contact
Sex is not just about the physical needs of the body. It helps connect two people in ways that are beyond our comprehension. So keep that love-making up. Don’t disregard it as a useless act.
9. You need to control your crazy
Moderation is the key to a happy and satisfactory life. So don’t go crazy every time he makes a mistake or overtime you guys have a fight. Keep your cool and think things through; solve the problem with the brain and not with your heart.
10. Cut them some slack
One thing that ladies cant face is that men flirt and cheat. Ladies, it is hardwired in their biology to be like that and it takes a lot of effort for men to stay with one woman for long. So if you catch him staring or smiling, don’t go bonkers. Treat it with a cool attitude.
Moderation is the key to a happy and satisfactory life. So don’t go crazy every time he makes a mistake or overtime you guys have a fight. Keep your cool and think things through; solve the problem with the brain and not with your heart.
10. Cut them some slack
One thing that ladies cant face is that men flirt and cheat. Ladies, it is hardwired in their biology to be like that and it takes a lot of effort for men to stay with one woman for long. So if you catch him staring or smiling, don’t go bonkers. Treat it with a cool attitude.
By Ayesha JT
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