How To Deal When You Don't Want To *Do It* As Much As Your S.O.

Sexual desire ebbs and flows. It’s totally normal for you to not be in the mood today but want to jump your partner tomorrow, or for your partner to want it on the daily while you prefer more of a weekly get-down. But what if you feel like you and your partner have completely mismatched libidos and that it’s impacting the quality of your relationship?

 

In a recent survey of

Why Every Marriage Has Serious Relationship Problems (& What You Can Do About Them)

Just because you fight doesn't mean your marriage is over.

Many people believe that marriage should be easy and that if you're dealing with serious relationship problems, something is wrong. But your marriage isn't over just because you and your spouse are having issues.

 

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Sustaining healthy relationships takes work, and learning how to improve communication in marriage is the best way to address your concerns ... before

3 Things You Must Do Before You Can Find True Love

What's holding you back?

If there's one piece of dating advice you should know, it's this: If your love life expectations are unrealistic, you'll never learn how to find true love or attract healthy relationships.

When it comes to your boyfriend or girlfriend checklist,

Four Signs You're in a Dead-End Relationship

As a relationship coach, I help people improve their relationships, as well as consider when it is best to move on. In the current post below, we'll discuss how to tell if you are in a dead end relationship. For how to leave a dead end relationship,  see my follow up post, Four Steps to Leave a Dead-End Relationship.

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Are you among the walking wounded who are struggling in dead-end relationships?

Do you wonder why you stay in your relationship even though it is no longer satisfying?

Do you want the stability of a secure relationship, yet

READ THIS CAREFULLY. - "Man can Cheat on his Woman, & still Love Her"

A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

If You Want A Hotter Sex Life, Ask Your Partner These 8 Questions

Are you ready to rumble?

Want hotter sex, a better bond with your partner, or all of the above? Before you even test drive a new position or call in a toy for backup, it’s worth having a sexy Q and A sesh with your partner.

But you can leave questions like, “What’s your favorite position?” to the rookies. Instead, bookmark these sexologist-approved Qs for some heated conversation. Here we go!

Five Subtle Ways To Fall Even Deeper In Love With Your Partner

This article was written by David Schroeder, a relationship counselor and coach, and republished with permission from YourTango

As a therapist and life transition coach, I’ve worked with many couples struggling with relationship issues. Most often, the issues revolve around ineffective communication, mistrust, the need for power and control, and the quest to be right.

In order to have a loving and thriving relationship

Things to know: Female and Male Health

1. A penis is a body part, therefore you cannot make it grow any more than you can grow your hand or your foot. If you happen to be young and start to use creams or lotions to increase the size of your penis, the increase in size is most likely the result of normal growth and not any cream.

Pay attention to the fact that your penis size changes as your body grows and that may continue until you are in your early 20's. Stop worrying about the size.

How to Have Hot Sex After 10+ Years Of Marriage, According To Real Couples

Staying together for the long haul doesn’t necessarily mean action in the bedroom has to suffer. In fact, knowing each other so well can actually make things even hotter in that arena.

Need proof? We spoke to real couples, all of whom have been together for 10 years or longer and rank their sex lives very highly. Lucky for you, they were willing to share their secrets.

Put it on the calendar

9 Rules Happy Couples Follow When They Fight

Chances are, even the most "perfect" couples you know have had their fair share of ugly spats. “The road to intimacy is paved with ruptures and repairs,” says Dr. Wendy Walsh, Ph.D. and author of The 30-Day Love Detox. When it comes to relationships, conflict is inevitable—but it's how you handle those blowouts that makes all the difference.
Whether he skipped ahead in OITNB without you, or your political/religious views aren’t well aligned, there’s a right way and a wrong way to work out your issues. Here's how happy couples get it right when it comes to conflict resolution.

1. They Actually Listen
In the throes of an argument, both parties are often thinking more about their comebacks than what the other person has to say. We immediately become defensive in arguments, says Walsh. This is a feeding ground for miscommunication and results in two people simply talking at one another, without digesting and building off of one another’s thoughts and feelings. "The person who is not being heard will find somebody to listen,” says Walsh. “And that person will be either a lover or a lawyer.”

President Buhari says Football loves me

President Muhammadu Buhari Monday in Abuja spoke of a his “football love relationship”.

 

The President was speaking after receiving the Glo/CAF Platinum Award for Good Leadership which was conferred on him last week in Abuja in recognition of his support for football, which resulted in Nigeria winning two major international tournaments last year.

Rupert Murdoch, 84, to marry former model Jerry Hall

Former model Jerry Hall didn’t get what she wanted then, but is she now getting what she needs?

Rupert Murdoch and Jerry Hall

The Texas-born stunner is trading in life as the woman Rolling Stone Mick Jagger never married to become the fourth Mrs. Rupert Murdoch.

The November-December couple — she’s 59 to his 84 — made the announcement Monday in The Times of London, which Murdoch owns.

“It’s ridiculous to watch them together. Beauty and the Beast,” said a source familiar with the courtship.

Murdoch is executive chairman at News Corp., which also owns the downmarket New York Post. He has written checks for years to the tune of hundreds of millions to keep the flailing tabloid afloat. Despite his best efforts, the money-losing rag continues to be irrelevant, most say.

“Mr. Rupert Murdoch ... and Miss Jerry Hall ... are delighted to announce their engagement,” the London Times announcement read.

The unlikely duo apparently met four months ago and have been dating ever since.

“They have loved these past months together, are thrilled to be getting married and excited about their future,” a Murdoch family rep told the London newspaper.

Others do not so warmly share their bliss.

How guilty are you? 10 of the worst conversational faux pas someone can make

Why you gotta be so rude?

It’s a question that reaches beyond the popular MAGIC! song — especially when someone is interupted while talking or being completely ignored.

But many people remain oblivious to some of the worst conversational faux pas.

Here are the ten biggest mistakes people make:

 

10. Seeming uninterested in what the other person is saying

Eva Longoria, Jose Antonio Baston get engaged in Dubai

This "Desperate Housewives" star is about to be a wife again.

Actress Eva Longoria got engaged to boyfriend Jose Antonio Baston over the weekend in Dubai, she revealed on Instagram on Sunday.

 

"Ummmm so this happened….#Engaged," she posted on Instagram, along with a photo of her kissing her new fiancé in the desert with her engagement ring in plain sight.

The "Devious Maids" star, 40, has been married twice before, first to soap opera actor Tyler Christopher from 2002 to 2004, and then to NBA point guard Tony Parker from 2007 to 2011.

Why men will continue to be babies in the hands of women!

In the battle of the sexes one advantage women will always have over the men is their boobs! Simple as it is. it is very comical how seemingly intelligent men turn into whimpering teenage boys at the sight of a well-stacked women. I thought I’d heard and seen everything for and against the mammary gland until recently when I was in the midst of ‘matured’ men who amused themselves by analysing the aqnatomy of fremale gtuests at a wedding.

Gifty Anti, Nana Ansah Kwao tie nuptial knot

Ace broadcaster and women’s advocate, Ms Gifty Anti, tied the nuptial knot with her royal groom, Nana Ansah Kwao, the host of ‘That’s my opinion’ on Joy FM, at a colourful ceremony at a location near Accra on Thursday.

 

The royal wedding, which was strictly by invitation, was graced by former President John Agyekum Kufuor, as well as other important guests.

Model Makayla Yarbrough, 21, who dated Scott Disick ‘alarmed’ by his partying

A 21-year-old model claims she dated Kourtney Kardashian’s troubled baby daddy Scott Disick for a month when he abruptly stopped calling her, right around the time of the “Keeping Up With the Kardashians” midseason premiere in September.

 

Elite model Makayla Yarbrough, 21, met at Disick’s Beverly

Justin Bieber goes for naked swim while vacationing with model Jayde Pierce in Bora Bora

Justin Bieber is in the buff in Bora Bora.

Model Jayde Pierce

Justin Bieber bares

The 21-year-old pop star was spotted going for a nude daytime swim while vacationing with rumored love interest Jayde Pierce Tuesday.

The non-bashful Biebs had no problem letting it all hang out while enjoying downtime in the sunny location.

Gomez sturn cover Elle Magazine, opens up about Justin Bieber, new album 'Revival'

Selena Gomez isn’t ruling out a possible reunion with Justin Bieber.

In a recent interview with ELLE magazine, the "Good for You" singer didn't totally deny the possibility of one day getting back together with her longtime on-again, off-again boyfriend.

"I don't know," she told the magazine when asked if the former lovebirds would ever get back together.

The 23-year-old Gomez, who graces the cover of ELLE's upcoming October issue, said she considers Bieber a "genuinely" good friend, even after their tumultuous relationship seemed to end for good last year.

Margaret Cho Open Marriage get files for Divorce from Al Ridenour after 11 years of marriage

Margaret Cho has filed for divorce from her husband Al Ridenour after 11 years of marriage.

The comedian, who announced that she was pulling the plug on her relationship last December, attributed the split to "irreconcilable difference," according to papers obtained by People.

Cho's relationship was not traditional, but it once worked for her and husband, who agreed on an open marriage.

"I'm married to a man but I'm bisexual so I like both. We got together because ...we both have this (idea), 'I just don't want to have sex with the same person my whole life. That's just gross,'" she told "The Real" in 2013.